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Holidays rarely follow the rule: Marathon, not Sprint. No matter how hard I try to keep presence top of mind, I often end the day just trying to catch my breath. Between gatherings, gift lists, and the constant movement of Hum That’s why in December, I long for a slower rhythm – quiet mornings, thoughtful rituals, and evenings that stretch into the night, unplanned and invisible. With our partners, the space that goes well inside, I redefine the clothes of the holiday season in soft contrasts and calm pieces that remind me to go for a moment.
My go-to outfits for the holiday season all the time
For me, the art of the Slow holiday season is found in the simplest of ways – the traditions of hand-writing cards, the smell of something baking while the house hums hums with music, or the joy of gathering friends around the coffee table. It is not doing little, but doing everything deliberately and deliberately. Every culture, every dress, every detail feels like a silent expression of care.
Below, I share a cool look, the best I will be wearing everything – from an unhurried morning at home to an evening spent with participating friends. Each one is timeless, brutal, and focused on the spirit of presence – because when you dress with purpose, you create space for important moments.
Writing Christmas cards
I love starting the paper season of the pen and paper convention, your thoughts are blown away by the people who have done it year after year. This is where I really lean toward cozy neutrals: A cashmere top that feels snug but soft. Add a pair of slippers and your favorite mug-the vibes to create a snow day skate that you *Almost* forgot your inbox was full of. Add a simple pair of earrings or a bracelet with enough shimmer to make the morning feel special.
A cozy night inside
In the evening is when I finally take it out. I’m going to run through my bath ritual – and the truth of slowing down – and pull out my favorite pieces of the elevator You don’t have to be perfect; You must feel good. A few body drops and a massage procedure later, and I actually felt back to center. Those easy nights always cross me by tearing forward. (And really: Who wouldn’t want to sleep in a sherpa eye barrel rather than a sherpa eye?)
Decorating the house for Christmas
The days of cutting trees are looking for comfort that we felt pulled together. The accompanying CashMere goes with you as you arrange decorations or head outside to hang a wreath. I like to put on a structured coat or wrap around my shoulders for those quick times outside – and a baseball cap or sneakers keep the look modern. The result is ineffective: celebrations without conflict.
Hosting friends for dinner
This is where the Polish revival meets a little holiday magic. I love the set wrapped with a hint of metal wire – light enough to hold candles. Keep the jewelry minimal and your skin light, and maybe hair that feels a little added. Put on your favorite scent, dim the lights, and pour something sparkling. When you feel comfortable, your guests will too.
The art of holiday dressing
In December, I choose to be soft – at my own pace, in what I wear, in the way I move through the season. The Haven perfectly matches the goals of that goal: cozy, refined, and made for real life. Because when you dress how you want to feel, relaxation naturally follows.
After all, the best holiday outfits aren’t the same – they’re all about showing off. For your loved ones, for essential services, and for yourself.