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If you’re not already subscribed to my Substack, that’s where I get more personal—writing from the heart about self-care, motherhood, wellness, and everything in between. My community liked this post there, so I wanted to share a bit with you here.
I just read a lesson with consequences that I honestly wasn’t ready for. It turns out that aging isn’t a slow, steady slide—it happens in waves. There’s a big burst during puberty (makes sense), and then again in the early 40s, when everything seems to accelerate at once (collagen, hormones, skin texture, the works). SO, if you’ve looked in the mirror lately and noticed a new line that wasn’t there a few weeks ago, you’re not crazy.
I’ve had more than a few such moments recently. A photo from a trip where I was like, Wait, when did that happen? Droopy eyelid after sleeping face down (why do I still do this). And one awkward gym mirror case around my neck that I choose not to revisit. I’m not losing sleep over any of it—but I’m encouraged.
I like that my close friends are naturally and carefree. That energy is contagious, and I think it’s created my own beauty more than I realize. But our group discussion also discusses Sculptra, has opinions during microneedling downtime, and whether lymphatic massage is worth it.
So I thought I’d bring the same power of group chat here. Although I like the natural way, and I really like to use the latest treatments to help us feel better and more confident.
My goal with all of this is not to “fix” my face or stop the clock. To maintain healthy tone, texture, and collagen levels for my skin to do its thing. Because honesty? No amount of Botox or fillers will fix skin that has lost elasticity—and I think a lot of people find that out the hard way.
I’ve tried many over the years, and I have some thoughts. Here’s everything—what’s worth it, what I’d skip, what surprises me, and a few things I’m thinking about in 2026.
Check out the full post here to read about the anti-aging beauty treatments I think are worth it. These are the rituals and treatments that help me feel refreshed, confident, and like I’m supporting my skin in a way that feels meaningful.